Enrollment closes on Sunday, February 12th at 11:55pm PST. We open enrollment only a few times each year.
Enrollment closes on Sunday, February 12th at 11:55pm PST. We open enrollment only a few times each year.
My name is Tina. My first born was diagnosed with Level 2 Autism, ADHD, Epilepsy, and Auditory Processing Disorder.
He had limited receptive speech, no social skills, limited eye contacts, no short term memory, speech delays, hyperactivity, impulsivity, unable to focus, uncontrollable moodiness for no reason.
Sensitive to sound, touch and textures of food. He couldn't wear a shirts with tags or anything long sleeves. He was an extremely picky eater with a very limited diet of mostly carbs.
He was constipated, underweight (side effects of his ADHD meds), and rarely slept thru the night.
I was told over and over that Autism and ADHD is permanent, and there was nothing I can do except medication and ABA.
I was told that my child was permanently disabled and won't have a chance to live independently as an adult, so I should plan financially to have him live with in adulthood.
I listened to the doctors and did everything they recommended. We planned our lives around the countless hours of therapies and tutoring (he was behind in school. In all subjects). He was on all the recommended meds. And had to take meds for the side effects for those meds.
For 9 years, my life was simply chaotic. I had a demanding job. My marriage was failing. My house was always a mess. And My son was getting worse by the year. After being on 7 different kinds of ADHD medication, the last of those meds stopped working.
This poor kid wasn’t sleeping. Because his behaviors were erratic and self harming. Every time he woke up, we got up with him.
We had sensors installed on all the doors. So if he got up in the middle of he night, my phone would wake me up.
I slept with one eye open.
The years blended into one another. It felt like I was on a rollercoaster that I couldn't get off and had zero control over.
The amount of chaos in our life was beyond reasonable. My family was falling apart. I was exhausted - physically and emotionally.
I felt hopeless. alone. and stuck.
I didn't know how to get out of the spirals. And there was never enough time to get everything done. I was constantly catching up and always behind. I was very unfocused.
The only times I felt happy was the rare days we went on vacations. Usually for just the first day, and then it's chaos. Traveling with a sensitive kiddo with Autism and ADHD was stressful.
I had no tools. I've tried parenting books and courses and youtube videos. But they never worked for me. They sound nice but it just doesn't work for this kid.
I just assumed that I was a shitty mom that couldn't keep up. I was hard on myself. I worked hard, stayed up lated, tried my best but could never quite catch up to the demands I've put on myself.
Then in that 9th year, in my most lowest of lows, two things happened:
Thing #1: I discovered cognitive coaching and started receiving private coaching from certified coaches to work on my emotions and mental state.
I had been stuck in perpetual stress response for so long. I wanted to turn my life around... somehow
Thing #2: I learned the idea that changing a child’s diet can potentially change his behaviors - via an Instagram DM from a stranger.
Honestly, if anyone had told me about "healing Autism/Adhd naturally" prior to this. I would have told them to fuck off.
My life was so beyond hard. My plate was so beyond full. The last thing I wanted to do was make it harder with some pseudoscience BS that won't likely work.
But this time, it was different.
And boy was I wrong.
Thing #2 arrived on my lap at the perfect, critical point. Because I was now desperate.
I had my back against the wall.
By that point, we had tried everything all the conventional medical doctors had told us to do. We were doing 40 hours/week of ABA, OT, Speech, Social coach, 7 different kinds of ADHD meds, Anxiety meds, 1-1 tutoring that costed an arm and a leg....
My child was getting worse. 😔
He now required 24 hour assistance due to self harming, elopement, going to bathroom in unusual places and not sleeping.
I had hit my lowest point.
I had no where else to go.
So. I went ALL IN on both things.
And girl. Let me tell you.
My life changed.
It was as if someone threw me an oxygen mask and peeled of off the ground.
It was as if someone threw me a lifeline.
I grabbed on tight for dear life.
Eventually the lifeline led me on to a boat, and the boat led me to the shores of solid land where I was finally safe.
While the journey was painful. That 9th year was the most pivotal.
It changed me so profoundly.
And eventually changed the trajectory of my child’s life. Forever.
Today, my son is almost 13. And he no longer lives with symptoms of Autism and Epilepsy.
Somedays when his toxic bucket is overloaded, ADHD symptoms is the first to pop in temporarily. But these days are far and few in between.
He has been off epilepsy meds for a few years now and have been seizure free. And free of ADHD meds and Anxiety meds for three years.
After healing his gut, we worked on healing his brain, re-building neuro-pathways that were missed during typical developmental stages when he was younger.
When his short term memory came back in 2020, he was, for the first time, able to remember moves from JiuJitsu. He started to thrive. A year later, he was invited to the competition team at his gym, and started competing locally and nationally.
This year, having competing in over 30 tournaments to prepare, he eventually went on to winning the USA Open in Dallas. And the Kids World Championship (PAN Kids) in Orlando. 😭
I created The Tribe - This program...
for that version of me from years ago that was hurting and suffering for 9 years.
I'll never forget her. I'll never just how fucking hard and painful it all was.
I was a hard worker man. I just needed a break.
I felt alone for so long. And I felt like no one understood me. Not even my husband - even tho he was suffering too in his own way.
This group is my attempt to create a valuable life raft for those of you who were in my similar shoes on this journey. And needs some help.
OR for those of you connected and aligned with my values and want to use these tools to change your own life as well.
I am committed to pass on to you what I spent years and over $200K to learn.
So that you can have the right mindset and practical tools to take the kinds of actions and to create the kind of results that will blow your own mind.
I believe in you. And I will continue to hold space for your 100% results and success.
It is my deepest intention to see you get thru the hard stuff faster than I did and with a lot less suffering.
And I'll be here to cheer you on, and to hold your hand when things get hard. Help you experience clarity when you get stuck or confused.
I hope to see you as a future success story. And you too could become am example for what's possible for someone else.
And together, someday, with enough of us with gains in reversing symptom. Perhaps, we can finally change the mainstream views about Autism, ADHD and it's permanency.
You are a woman on a mission to change your life and are determined to change the life of your child.
You've got the desire, passion and ambition, but you're also feeling lost, confused and overwhelmed by everything that's on your plate.
You can't imagine adding another thing onto your plate.
Plus all the confusing and conflicting info on what to do next, has you paralyzed in feeling stuck.
You are ready to get out of your own way.
Even if it's baby steps you are willing to take. Or big strides. It doesn't matter. Intention and desire is the only thing needed.
Even tho you're nervous. But you're also excited for the possibilities of change for the better for your family.
And you're excited to do it with others who are also done making excuses and ready to make the changes necessary to turn their life around.
➡️ An overwhelmed mama with so much going on in your life right now that you can't imagine adding another thing on your plate. Your life feels so cluttered right now. You are not ready to start removing gluten or you're not interested in making diet changes. You just want a better life right now. It's been so tough.
➡️ A perfectionist who puts a lot of pressure on herself, who really wants to try diet changes. But you're scared it'll be too hard, or you won't be able to keep up consistently, or doubt that it will work for you. So you haven't started, or started but stopped since it was a struggled to keep up.
➡️ A determined mom new to healing, and you're ready to do the diet change but need help on the how - how to start? what to do next? It's all so overwhelming. The fact that it's not black and white science makes it so extremely difficult.
➡️ An experienced warrior mom who have spent thousands of dollars on different things. You've taken a lot of action, you've worked hard, and hustled your way here. But your child is not getting better. You feel stuck with the journey and wondered if all these years were a waste. Fear of the future hunts you regularly, causing you to feel angry and frustrated
➡️ A curious soul who values personal growth. You may or may not have special needs children or children at all. You value your physical, mental and emotional health. You're a seeker. Seeking for ways to up-level, up-lift, improve your life to experience your full potential. You've read self help books, but find it difficult to put them in practice.
You will have access to "Healing in 90-Days" program. Currently being recorded live over 12 weeks.
From this program, you will receive a step-by-step action Roadmap and checklist for what to do next for you or your child.
There are two healing path mapped out in the program. One for healing the mother. And one for helping your child with the healing journey.
You'll get clear tools to help your child. Anything else missing, just ask.
Telling people what actions to take doesn't work, unless the person's mindset is onboard. Otherwise it'll be too hard when hard emotions are in the way.
For this reason. The program includes TWO monthly private 1-on-1 coaching sessions with an Advanced Certified Coach to help you relief and process negative emotions.
The coach can help you with any problems you are experiencing. So you can get to a better emotional space to show up in a way that can best support your child.
For example, you can bring feelings of overwhelm or anxiety to the sessions. Something happened at work or home? Bring it.
What this means for you is you always have a private space to talk to someone who specializes in helping you see what you can't see yourself.
This calibre and type of coaching typically cost several thousand dollars to start. Many members are in the group just for this benefit of having access to 1-on-1 coaching. There is not a better deal for coaching anywhere else.
You'll be fully support by my team of Mindset Coaches, Certified Health Practitioner, Parent Mentors, and Support staff. Plus have direct access to me to help guide you.
You'll also be surrounded and mastermind with other women just like you, on this journey. To share what's working and not working. To get advice. Every advice is vetted by real moms. We can direct you from unnecessary expensive treatments that aren't effective.
You'll always have a safe place to ask questions and get clarity on your specific situation. You can ask technical questions on health - Vicky is our resident health practitioner who will review and answer those questions.
It'll be comparable to having direct access to answer your questions from a biomed doc. Without to pay extra unless you wanted to hire her for services.
You also won't have the excuse of being confused anymore. Any questions or uncertainties? Just bring them to the group, and we'll clear it up for you. No more confusion.
We have over 100 moms, at all different stages of healing. From not interested, to just starting, to having years of experience, to having a child that's considered "healed"
Highly practical and high impact master-classes on the most common issues we have. Each class comes with simple steps that you can easily take right away to feel better or see a result.
These classes, and all coaching call replays, are available on-demand access. Classes also comes with Transcript and Workbooks.
One of these classes, alone, is worth the cost of the program each month. You will love these. We also have a monthly Q&A call to discuss the topic focus for the month - so we can dive deeper as a group and get your specific questions answered.
LIVE mindset coaching with me twice a month. It's important you learn from someone who's found sustainable ways create a lot of results with ease.
I will teach you how I think and handle life's problems without beating myself up, going into victim mode or getting angry.
You can receive coaching by watching others get coached. Or raise your hand to get coached by me live. You'll be surprised how much you'll see yourself in everyone's problems. You'll see that you are truly not alone.
You'll leave the call inspired and motivated and changed. Priming your brain with positive ideas, techniques will change you and rewire your brain thru repetition.
➡️ Take thought-out and consistent action in your life or for your child (instead of sitting in indecision and uncertainty. Wondering what you should do next)
➡️ Have a clear plan and roadmap for what's next to get to your goals. (freeing you up from hours of confusion and feeling stuck)
➡️ How to take control of your emotional life in a sustainable and practical way. So you won't fall into the downward spiral of negative emotions for as long as before. Hours or Minutes instead of ruminating for weeks and feeling terrible.
➡️ You also Save a Ton of Time by not spending as much time spinning in worry, guilt, fear and negative thought loops.
➡️ Feel more confident so you can make quicker decisions to execute versus agonizing over things being perfect or right. And get out of overwhelm.
➡️ Take advantage of working with professionals with proven track record of actually helping people create results. And working with like-minded moms who are brave, self-aware, passionate about helping herself and her child.
The cost is $147 each month for the highest quality of coaching, guidance and support you won't find anywhere else at this price point.
You will have a full team of people supporting you, including:
I get that $147 is a lot of money for some of you.
And we are certainly not the right fit for everyone.
I felt that it was important and most valuable to you to have private 1-on-1 coaching included by highly trained Advanced Certified Coaches. And to have access to a Professional Certified Health Practitioner in the group.
I found that without the mindset piece. I can tell you all the actions to take to help. And it just doesn't work. It won't have the life transforming effects that our members have experienced.
Quality cost money. So does hiring high quality professionals. I do not want to sacrifice quality over price.
Consider the problem that you are facing now. Imagine you are free'd from this mental dread. How much is that worth to you?
For me? I would have paid a lot more than this to get myself out of the hell hole I was in for 9 years. And to have hope? That's priceless.
Imagine more peace and less fighting in your home and with your husband. How much is that worth to you? Healing marriages from conflicts is one of the common side effects members report.
And this is certainly fractions from what you would pay by hiring a private 1-1 coach yourself.
Our Philosophy ❤️
When you are well. Everyone you love benefits.
Investing in you. Putting yourself first is not selfish.
Actually. Not doing it is selfish.
You will learn how to be kind to yourself thru changing your relationship with negative self talk and self judgement.
This piece alone will change everything. We've seen gains from mothers who only worked on this piece, and with no other changes to their children (including diet changes) saw a shift in their child's behaviors.
We don't subscribe for perfectionism.
We believe you can still heal, improve and move forward without doing it all perfectly.
"Before coaching with Tina, I was facing a lot of behavioral problems with my son which would leave me overwhelmed and unsure of what to do.
I was suffering from anxiety and I was completely shut off because my body did not know how to survive anymore.
I watched Tina’s IG stories about her group “The Tribe”— it sounded so promising but yet I was still indecisive about joining. My mind told me: this won’t be useful, it won’t help.
The timing wasn’t good. I was in the middle of moving, my child having severe tantrums, my 3 year old daughter traumatized from it all. I knew it wasn’t gonna get better with me waiting so I jumped in to get some help.
The moment I joined, it was like someone opened up a window with a cool breeze coming through. She literally woke me up and I cannot be more grateful.
Things started coming together just with her coaching me for 15 mins on a live call. Trust me it gets better in the 1:1 coaching sessions!
The coaching calls are so simple yet leave you WOW. I didn’t think it would be that way before doing this.
The Tribe has shown me a side of myself I hadn’t known existed and gave me so much strength.
I put myself on the Mom Healing Path (from the “Healing in 90 days” program in The Tribe) and have seen changes in a matter of 3 days.
My son who used to pull my hair is attracted to my calmness and wants to spend time with me. I owe it to The Tribe."
-Aroosa, New Jersey
"I signed up in hopes of not feeling depressed and suffocated by my son’s autism diagnosis.
Before coaching I was anxious and had a very negative and unmanaged mind. I was always miserable and felt trapped by life’s circumstances.
Coaching has given me the tools to heal. To know how to process my feelings and past traumas - including trauma of an Autism diagnosis.
I’m less triggered and anxious. It’s helped me move through life’s challenges with clarity. Especially when life seems more complicated.
Now, I love myself more. I’m calmer and less oriented toward perfectionism. I feel light (even if things in life get heavy).
I didn’t sign up initially because I didn’t want to spend money on myself, it felt like money that should go towards my family.
BUT after experiencing coaching (for a year now), it’s been life changing. I’m worth it. And it has been crucial in helping myself so I can then better help my child and my family."
(Mom to 9 yr old boy diagnosed with level-3 Autism + severe Sensory Processing Disorder. Healing journey for 6 years)
"I originally signed up because I wanted help with diet, being able to ask many specific questions and get straight answers instead of continuing to do the research myself. Otherwise, I would go down the internet hole for hours and would still be unsure after hours of research.
Before coaching, I was feeling hopeless and worried all the time. I cried everyday…thinking of all the ways I was not good enough for my boys. I wanted to help them but was failing so badly. I was miserable.
I couldn’t believe this was my life for the rest of my life. I dealt with anxiety daily. I hardly ever slept. I had a to-do list that felt like it was never going to end…and I was doing it all alone.
From coaching with Tina, I was able to go deep to find out what was really the issue. I was able to face them and then let them go because they were weighing heavy on me. Definitely life changing.
Tina gave me tools to use to calm my nervous system. That’s huge because can you imagine walking around with fear inside you 24/7? It’s like poison, slowly killing you.
Inside The Tribe, there are other members like me who are there for support too, and I consider them experts. Combined as a Tribe, they are a wealth of knowledge.
Sometimes when Tina helps one person, I’m able to use that information to help myself and/or my family. Other member’s may have questions or personal things they like to share and it’s something you’ve never thought of to even ask. I love those!
Today, I feel Free. I’m free from guilt. I’m free from shame. I’m free from constant anxiety. I’m free from the pain I felt every second of everyday for so many years. I don’t carry those things around anymore.
And if they creep up on me, I know what to do to work through them. I don’t walk around feeling hopeless anymore. I’m very hopeful.
You’re never stuck even if you think you are. You have a safe place to go for anything: recipes, advice about sleep/illness/behavior, venting…If you have struggling thoughts of any sort, you name it, you have support for it. You’re NEVER alone."
(Mom to 2 Boys Age 10 and 8 with Level-1 and Level-2 Autism)
What other women inside The Tribe say about the program
"Before I joined the Tribe, I felt isolated, lost, and alone. Being an autism mom is a lonely thing, but being one who is also on a healing journey for their child is even more isolating.
We had recently got a seizure diagnosis for my son as well, and I felt like I could barely keep myself moving throughout the day -let alone try to overhaul his diet or change anything about myself!
My own self was always the last thing I thought about, took care of.. I didn’t like myself -I used to be fun loving, joyful, goofy. With my son’s non-verbal daily needs and medical complexities, there seemed to be no room for me to live a “balanced” life.
I felt helpless, like I couldn’t meet his needs and mine at the same time, which made me feel like a constant failure.
Before joining, I thought The Tribe would be some kind of weird money grab (I’ve never had been cognitively coached and was very unfamiliar) and I thought that it’d be a lot of non-concrete mumbo jumbo. Boy was I wrong!
The tribe has been like an oxygen mask, allowing you to breathe enough so that you are able to see your life in a clearer focus than you have before. They will take you out of the fog of overwhelm and anxiety, and the best part is you don’t need anyone but yourself to accomplish this.
Once you start doing the work, the momentum is so encouraging that it propels you forward to becoming a healthy connected and grounded version of yourself.
The tribe has simultaneously taught me to “chill out” and become more productive. It’s like once I joined, I had permission (through coaching and seminars) to give myself credit for what I do instead of constantly beating myself up that I can’t personally “heal” or recover my son. I’m learning to love him for exactly who he is today, and it’s changed me profoundly.
I have been able to find my joy again.
The tribe has helped me get off my butt and stop making excuses for myself and do the work personally and for my son of diet changes, mentally changing the way I see him, celebrating small victories.
I’ve learned to both accept my reality, but also have a hope-filled, productive reality where I can set realistic goals and accomplish them-not letting my fear, doubts, or anxiety keep me from pursuing my son’s health or my own.
The gifts of 2x a month private coaching, Tina’s master classes, plus Vicky’s picky eating courses are SUCH an incredible resource. All you have to do is show up, listen, and gain knowledge and be curious.
Each part of this program is SO specific, topically, and step by step that it felt really do-able and that I could accomplish what they were asking me to do.
Even if I can’t show up to every live call, going back and being able to watch the replays (sometimes twice!) has been amazing. It’s been so incredibly worth it to be part of this community for the past 6 months!
I am a mom of multiple kids (3rd boy on the way) and Abe is my oldest. I am going to be a better mom for each of my kids because of this work! I now have tools to help me navigate real life instead of just feeling like I’m constantly drowning and throwing myself pity parties.
(Mom to Abe - 5 year old boy diagnosed with Level 2 Autism & Seizure Disorder)
"The main reason I joined The Tribe originally is after hearing about it from two of my friends who are in the group and they both had good things to say about it. Practical, simple and easy access. No pressure, open and empowering. And they were both seeing actual results.
Another reason for me to join is, mindset work has been the key factor in my son's progress thus far. I would say 80-100% of his breakthroughs thus far come from shifting mindset.
Initially $147 felt like a big commitment to make, so I sat with it for a little while. But then I found out it is a monthly thing where you can leave at any time and you offered a satisfaction guarantee in the first month. Plus I heard the level of care you provided, so I joined to try it out for a month.
Once I got into The Tribe, I realized how much good value it was overall. The 20min coaching sessions sounded very short initially. Now that I’ve experienced it, I know how powerful a 20 min coaching call can be.
I’ve done a lot of programs on mindset work to support Autism. Although they revealed how the work is about parents (self love, self acceptance, self understanding) they didn’t quite support the actual "how to do it" on a practical level.
The Tribe offers very practical support that covers our ground as mothers in a more gentle, loving, open-minded way. Ultimately, our well-being is crucial to everything, so our work on that can’t go wrong. When you think about the value that could bring to your life, the monthly price is well worth it.
I have been on the journey to help my son for 7 years now. I was burned out. Now, I feel like I am on the track to recover and reestablish my life.
I feel clearer. I feel calmer because if I get confused, I can always take it to my private coaching call. I feel more empowered and more capable. I am less judgemental towards myself.
Another thing that I didn't even expect to get out of the tribe is the amazing help in regards to diet change, navigating the medical part of the journey, and other therapies you could do to help your child.
It’s also so valuable to have someone like Vicky in The Tribe and we can ask questions at any time! I really feel that there is this genuine sense of moms sharing to help each other in their journeys. That is so precious."
(Mom to a 10 year old boy with Moderate ASD/PDD)
What other women inside The Tribe say about the program
"My little one used to sleep only 2 hours and then wake up for another 6 hrs and then sleep for another 2. Now he sleeps for 9-10 hrs at night. This is a life changer for us.
Sleeping more has really done some good on both me and hubby.
We still have moments that sometimes consume us, especially fear about the future for our little one. BUT we are actually very hopeful now, looking at how sleep changed simply from changing his diet and adding more nutrients to it.
Honestly, I am glad that I landed up here on The Tribe to heal my little one.
I don’t know if anyone has this extent of knowledge and the way he progressed on sleep. I will forever be thankful. Thank you Vicky, Tina, Staci 💗"
(Mom to a 3.5 year old boy diagnosed with Autism)
"I joined The Tribe because there was something in my mode of operation that was not working.
I would do whatever I could to give the world to my children, research any issue they had, work with them in school and life, but at the end of the day, I was exhausted, easily triggered, and would find myself angry at the simplest things.
I have loved and learned so many invaluable life and perspective changing tools!
Today, as I'm solidifying the details for our vacation, I find myself start worrying about what's going to happen or something that isn't booked right, but then I start telling my brain that it’s going to be ok, and I’ll figure it out as it comes.
SUCH relief and worry lifted off! It’s a wonderful feeling!
The short time I've been here has been invaluable. I LOVE the weekly calls and how open we all can be with practically strangers - and feel supported, and heard, and leave encouraged! This community is amazing!
You have no idea how much calmer I am and more confident in my choices because I now care about me. My oldest one is happier too, and the times she would freak out about silly little things, I tell her the same things you tell us! Lol and she bounces back real quick! "
This is the best value you can find anywhere online for this type of work. What you will gain is priceless.
Try us for a month. Go all in. Commit to your own transformation. And see how your life will change in a few weeks.
You have nothing to lose. Literally.
If you show up, willing to commit, willing to be open, and willing to give this process a fair shot. I can guarantee your results for the first month.
If you give this process a fair chance, and you don’t think that this work can change your life, I will give you your money back in the first month. ***
(***Giving this process a fair chance means, during your first month after enrollment: Schedule two private 1-1 coaching calls that take place within the first 25 days of enrollment. These calls are 20minutes each. Attend both calls, show up on time, be open and emotionally available for the coach to help you. Plus complete the foundational course with completed worksheets. Refund requests must be made within the first 25 days of enrollment via email with completed worksheet to show you did the work. This guarantee offer is not applicable for those who signed up thru the 30-Days Action Plan Picking Eating program)
Not only will you learn and take action that will change your child's life.
You will also discover practical tools and permanent mindset shifts that will change your own life. ❤️